• 25 rules for young men:

    1. Know the difference between love and lust.

    2. It’s OK to go to movies by yourself.

    3. Hygiene is more important than you think.

    4. Never date a friend’s ex.

    5. Stay informed on what’s going on. Don’t be a sheep.

    6. Have a sense of humor but don’t joke about dreams and goals.

    7. Study the type of people who upset you and why.

    8. Stand up to bullies. You’ll only have to do it once.

    9. Don’t bully people weaker than you.

    10. Learn how to tell stories.

    11. Don’t lean on porn to be better in bed. Read the right books.

    12. You never marry a girl. You marry her entire family.

    13. Don’t complain– you seem helpless. 80% / 20%

    14. Be impressed by the right things. Things that matter.

    15. When coming across a successful person talk / impress less. Ask more.

    16. Have a memorable style.

    17. Don’t feel guilty for being ambitious.

    18. Be mentally and emotionally ready to lose loved ones.

    19. Always have some cash,
    and a power bank.

    20. Be aware of your level of sensitivity.

    21. Regardless of what you get paid per hour, give your best. Effort + Attitude matters.

    22. Always beat your prior best in everything you do.

    23. Acting “as if” all the time will eventually require you to become who you’re acting like.

    24. Work for a great leader to shadow and duplicate. The right leader matters more than the right industry.

    25. Don’t have too many rules. It’ll overwhelm you.
    #yuvraj
    25 rules for young men: 1. Know the difference between love and lust. 2. It’s OK to go to movies by yourself. 3. Hygiene is more important than you think. 4. Never date a friend’s ex. 5. Stay informed on what’s going on. Don’t be a sheep. 6. Have a sense of humor but don’t joke about dreams and goals. 7. Study the type of people who upset you and why. 8. Stand up to bullies. You’ll only have to do it once. 9. Don’t bully people weaker than you. 10. Learn how to tell stories. 11. Don’t lean on porn to be better in bed. Read the right books. 12. You never marry a girl. You marry her entire family. 13. Don’t complain– you seem helpless. 80% / 20% 14. Be impressed by the right things. Things that matter. 15. When coming across a successful person talk / impress less. Ask more. 16. Have a memorable style. 17. Don’t feel guilty for being ambitious. 18. Be mentally and emotionally ready to lose loved ones. 19. Always have some cash, and a power bank. 20. Be aware of your level of sensitivity. 21. Regardless of what you get paid per hour, give your best. Effort + Attitude matters. 22. Always beat your prior best in everything you do. 23. Acting “as if” all the time will eventually require you to become who you’re acting like. 24. Work for a great leader to shadow and duplicate. The right leader matters more than the right industry. 25. Don’t have too many rules. It’ll overwhelm you. #yuvraj
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  • Guilt and what it means

    A person who feels guilty is easy to control. Especially a child. Depression makes him or her obedient. This is so convenient for parents.

    This emotion is originally intended to protect us, just like fear.

    After all, it is a lot easier to use a rigid pattern of prohibitions - this is BAD, this is NOT ALLOWED, than to spend time explaining why this is so.

    So there are two possible scenarios:

    Victim.
    When there is no resistance, the core of the personality is broken/bent. A person starts justifying violence, is ashamed of everything, especially him or herself, takes a subordinate position, etc.

    Tyrant.
    When an EGO is inflated, one becomes tough/violent, always right, always against, adamant, always justifies him or herself, blames everyone, etc.
    #yuvraj #guilt
    Guilt and what it means A person who feels guilty is easy to control. Especially a child. Depression makes him or her obedient. This is so convenient for parents. This emotion is originally intended to protect us, just like fear. After all, it is a lot easier to use a rigid pattern of prohibitions - this is BAD, this is NOT ALLOWED, than to spend time explaining why this is so. So there are two possible scenarios: ▫️Victim. When there is no resistance, the core of the personality is broken/bent. A person starts justifying violence, is ashamed of everything, especially him or herself, takes a subordinate position, etc. ▫️Tyrant. When an EGO is inflated, one becomes tough/violent, always right, always against, adamant, always justifies him or herself, blames everyone, etc. #yuvraj #guilt
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